My Love, My Bride

感情中最糟糕的事情，

或許是當你發現明明兩人在一起，

你卻感覺比自己一個人的 時候還來的寂寞。

This movie is portraying what most of the couples are nowadays.

I like the story on how they knew each other. The girl (MY) went for a speed dating. I think their dress code for the date was to dress in sky blue. She sat down to the table where the boy (YM) is seated. Maybe she was pretty and caught his attention because the name she called out wasn't his name. But they engaged in a conversation anyway as he didn't clarify. He then noticed there was a guy came into the cafe, wearing sky blue jacket. He half pushing the girl out of the cafe and when his friend chasing out from the cafe, he grabbed her hand and they started to run. That's how they knew each other.

Sometimes I ponder, fate is such a mysterious magic that bring love together.

And there's this part of the story... YM's poetry teacher died because of heart attack. He came home looking rather depressed. At the same time, MY was feeling unwell. But she made him dinner, she told him it was new recipe and asked how was it tastes like? He was being so frank - it was tasteless. He said he doesn't want dinner anymore and went back to his work. She then asked him whether she should go to doctor because she was having stomachache. She repeated twice but what she got was that she killed his idea on writing poetry. Things got worsen because he wasn't in good mood and she wasn't feeling well. She was lying in the sofa when he was going out to get some fresh air. He saw his stacks of poetry books that he brought back from his teacher's house earlier being moved to the foyer. This agitated him even more. He kept grumbling and ignored his wife groaning with pain in the sofa. He left the house by banging so hard on the door. She got no choice but to call her mother for help.

It's okay to be moody over whatever situation that gotten to you. But I think it's best to mention it beforehand. Who knows what you've been through for the whole day? It's okay if you don't feel like sharing, but at least you have to make sure the message of "today has been a tough day for me" deliver to the person that waited for you at home.

Like the one mentioned above, she's so innocent, knowing nothing and yet get all the tantrums he threw at her. At the end, of course they get back together. Because they were reminiscing how they get together at the first place.

To get into a relationship is easy, but to maintain one is tough. Because the longer you get used to that relationship, eventually you'll take things for granted. This is what humans are. And that is why there's this saying - appreciate things before you lose it.